Convicted

To all my "grown" women friends: let's remember that our actions and words should lend support and wisdom. I can honestly say that sometimes I purposely say and do things to let my husband know I'm aggravated. I'm dead wrong and I know it. I'm learning that It's not necessary or appropriate for me to use "nagging" as a weapon. If you know men, then you know that this method of communication is a complete turn off and against God's word. I listened and watch my parents fight through a large part of their marriage so unfortunately I brought those learned behaviors into mine. I'm thankful that my husband forgives my "craziness." I'm growing and un-doing my learned behavior because it's not attractive, actually sinful. I have responsibility to the women in my life to show them my God given role as a wife. We all have to step up to the plate, stop pretending and start loving. If we love the way God intended then the men in our lives will/should respond accordingly and be the leaders God intended them to be. Proverbs 27:vs 14-16. Gen 2:vs 22-23. Eph 5:vs 22-24. TeamConvicted. Bblessedloveyou