Sunday, March 17, 2013

Bullies

Bullies come a dime a dozen. There's no age limit for a bully. Speaking to those who are in a relationship with a bully, shut it down! God does not intend for us to go through life being bullied. Most bullies operate out of jealousy and self pity. If you want peace put your foot down. Stop acknowledging these people. The more we answer them the bigger they become. As Jesus hung on the cross one thief taunted Him, questioning Who He really was. The other thief understood Who He was and asked for forgiveness. So even at death a bully has the choice to change but don't wait on death to get them out of your life. A bully doesn't love anyone but themselves (that's not even love). If you have a bully in your life ask God for the courage to leave or disconnect. Ask God to touch their hearts and let them see the damage they're causing. Understand that a bully can be very deceiving. They know the right words to say to make you think they've changed so ask God to help you see who they really are and if they've changed. I really I have women in mind as I'm writing this because our young women need to understand that the men in their lives can be or is a bully. Remember Who created us, remember the power He gave us, remember that He loves us all and remember that we should never submit to anyone who doesn't respect us (man or woman).

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